As Fat88Trader's matter is more or less settled, I decided to delete my Saturday evening post.
Through the episode, I learned that D was right about me when he told me in 2008 that I was a 16-year-old trapped in the body of a 36-year-old. I suspect I know less about people - about what motivates them and what hurts them - than my 7-year-old nieces. I have always been sensitive to sufferings, and that's about all I've got. It actually annoys me a great deal.
Experience tells me that whenever I keep to myself, no one gets hurt.